Monday, May 13, 2013

Gotcha Day

What an unbelievable Day!! We woke up with much excitement and anticipation to meet our little man. We had to sign papers first and didn't go until around 1:30pm to get him.

When we walked into the room the minute he saw us he hollered "Mama, Baba!!!" And then he ran to us. He was very well prepared!! Thanks to all the wonderful caregivers here in Chongqing.

From that moment, he ran from me, to Mark to Sophie, to Silas and to Sadie calling them by their Chinese name of big sister and big brother! He was very excited.

We pulled out some toys we had brought for him and by FAR his favorite was the little Fisher Price digital camera. He play with us with that the whole time we were in there!! He ran the batteries down and filled up the camera. He took over 300 photos!!!

He did great and has such a sweet spirit and such a happy heart. He is precious. Last night at bedtime...I felt so bad for him. He began to holler for his foster mom. He was visibly uncomfortable. He wouldn't take his clothes off to out on Jammie's. we just let him keep his clothes on.

I stayed up all I could and eventually had to lay down. Mark and Silas played with him some. But it got so late. He was avoiding sleep at all costs. But when it was time, he got up in the bed with me and sat up. He stared across the room and put his little head in his hands. Then he started to bawl!! I felt so sorry for him. I know he had to be extremely uncomfortable in a strange place with strange people. We just let him cry and held him until he eventually laid down and went to sleep.

I was so glad he fell asleep. It's good that he grieved...but it's so pitiful to sit there while he is screaming and crying and all we can do is love him and pray for him. I know night times are always the hardest and it will get better thru the rest of this week and next week.

Having Sophie, Silas and Sadie was huge!!! It not only helped Shep feel comfortable and have someone to play with...it was priceless for them to experience this as well. We are so glad they are with us!!! It is such a blessing!!!

And what an incredible help Tonya has been. You can thank her for all those amazing photos she took. She captured the moment perfectly!!! Thanks to The Bohlingers for sharing her with us these couple of weeks!!!

Well...it's 2am here and I need to try and get a little sleep. Ill post again tomorrow night!! We go and see the orphanage today. After his sadness last night it makes me nervous. But I know it will be good for him and all of us!!! Ill do all I can to take good pics. Love you all!! Thanks so much for the prayers!!
Blessings,
Mark and Buffi

4 comments:

  1. Kathy and I rejoice at how God has placed you all together. Shep will be such a joy for you - even though it will be difficult at first with his adjusting to new surroundings. The Comforter will be there for everyone. And what joy you will share together as a family! Congrats!

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  2. Bless his little heart :( I will be praying for him!! Just heartbreaking I know.. seeing him grieve. God will get him & you guys through it! Hang in there!

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  3. Praying that all goes well for you today! The God's mercy is new every morning, even for Shep! I pray that he continues to get more and more comfortable with you guys, and that as the day goes on the names he has learned to call you will not just be what he has learned, but what he feels on the inside. I pray the Holy Spirit comforts him through this process, even his grieving moments. Praying for you guys in those moments that God will let you know what you need to do to help bring peace to him! Love you guys! Can't wait to hear more about what miraculous things God is going to do on your family's behalf!

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  4. Can't wait to see pics!!! So excited that you finally have that little boy in your arms! :)

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